How to get married and stay married to the perfect mate!!
This book will talk about the ways and theories of how to stay married one you are
married. It will cover stuff like communication, similarity, physical attractiveness,
similarity, balance and equity theory, and proximity.
Communication is important in relationships. I will cover the aspects of non-verbal and
verbal communications. In the book I will convey the differences in the way men and woman
think and this will help give a better understanding of each other and will in turn allow
them to work out their problems effectively...
Another aspect I will talk about is the reinforcement theory. This theory talks about
the fact that you will like someone who positively reinforces you. I will talk about how
this theory can be used in marriages to keep couple closer together, keeping them liking
each other.
In my book, I will also talk about the balance theory. The balance theory is the notion
that people have the same negative and positive ways of thinking.. When this is not so,
you have an imbalance which can disrupt a relationship. I will talk about how a couple
can use the balance theory to make sure that they will be happy.
Another theory I will talk about is the equity theory. This theory dictates that people
will be more attracted to someone that they have a fair relationship with. It states that
we will be happier with a person who takes as much as they give to us. Over a long term
relationship, like marriage, this is important because both husband and wife feel that
they are approximately equal. In my book I will talk about how to use this theory to
makes sure that both couples get the same out of the relationship.
I will also talk about proximity in my book. Proximity talks about being near to your
partner. It is important because if one partner is away all the time, the couple will not
become as close. I will deal with the aspect of how to stay in close proximity with your
partner and this will lead to a closer relationship between the two. It is also important
to start a relationship with someone who is near to you because this will allow the
relationship to better develop itself.
Also, there must be similarity between the couples. In my book I will talk about finding
someone who has similar interests and traits. When two people are similar, the more
likely they are to be attracted to each other and the more likely they are to be happy
while they are dating and when they are married.
The last thing I will talk about in my book is physical attractiveness. Like most people,
physical attractiveness is important to me. Physical attractiveness is important and in
my book I will talk about people thinking that once they are married that they do not
have to look good anymore and I will also talk about marrying someone who you are
attracted to. People have to continue to take pride in their looks when they are married
and this in turn will make for a happier relationship.
In conclusion, my book will take all the aspects mentioned above into account which will
help people pick the right mate and help them stay married to this person. I believe this
book to be a best seller and look forward to getting the $100 000 royalty check from you
in the near future so I can start writing my book.
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